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DJ Martin (SingleFocus Ministry®)

CAR WASH by D.J. Martin

After early Sunday morning worship services, I often pass by a car wash full of people. During a Sunday afternoon conversation, I thought I had an audience of agreeable ‘mature’ Christians with whom I could express my dismay. However, one of the ministers gently challenged me. Admittedly, I couldn’t justify my rebuke of that practice. I had no religious or biblical premise to validate my complaint. I deemed it sacrilegious. In my unwritten book of rules, washing cars was something you didn’t do on Sunday. Nevertheless, after listening to the minister, I became aware of my religious and judgmental attitude. It was offensive to me, but I couldn’t biblically argue that it was offensive to God.

I realized that my perspective was limited and shaped by my own personal beliefs and traditions. This experience taught me the importance of humility and open-mindedness when it comes to understanding and interpreting religious practices. It challenged me to reevaluate the basis of my convictions and to approach differences in religious observance with empathy and understanding. Ultimately, it encouraged me to engage in meaningful dialogue with others, even when our perspectives may initially seem at odds. This encounter served as a powerful reminder of the complexities of human interpretation and the need for compassion in navigating theological differences.

I remember, one Sunday morning my brother was singing a secular song and I responded, “This is the Sabbath, keep it holy.”  Much like a hypocritical Pharisee (Luke 13:15), I had a ridiculous, unwritten list of things people should never do on a Sunday: don’t iron, wash cars, sing or listen to secular songs…

With all the commandments that the Pharisees observed, keeping the Sabbath was the one charge (John 5:16) they relentless made against Jesus. Oh my, they were so outraged when His disciples took corn from the stalk to eat on the Sabbath (Luke 6:1-2)! Observing the Sabbath became their measuring rod and premise of justification for accepting or denying the legitimacy of Jesus Christ.

On one Sabbath, Jesus went to the synagogue when a man with a withered hand was there. The Pharisees, intending to accuse Jesus, asked Him if it was lawful to heal on the Sabbath (Matthew 12:10). Jesus’ reply posed a better question, “Is it lawful to ‘do good’ on the Sabbath (Mark 3:4)?” Then He commanded the man to stretch out his hand, and when he did, his withered hand was whole. I imagine they couldn’t charge Jesus with working on the Sabbath, because they couldn’t prove whether He healed the man or if God in heaven did.

Jesus, full of compassion (Matthew 14:14), often healed and performed miracles on the Sabbath. I’m sure that, to the people, any day was a good day to receive healing.

Since His resurrection, most Christians celebrate Sunday as their Sabbath. Jesus set the captives free and broke chains with His death, burial, and resurrection. He got up with all power in His hand and set us free from rules and bondage (Galatians 4:4-5, Isaiah 61:1). Therefore, we are free to worship and free to revere our relationship with the Father more than observing a day. However, like the religious Jews, some denominations, pastors, and elders have adopted a set of rules and regulations to place next to the Bible. They bemoan cults, but the only difference between them and cults is that cults are strict enforcers, overtly controlling enslavers, and disproportionately worshipers of religious rules and regulations more than worshippers of God.

Paul scolded the religious Jews because they were insisting that the Gentiles observe Jewish rules or traditions that require circumcision and avoidance of certain foods. Paul explained to them that it was heartfelt faith in Christ not traditions and laws that was the determination of their relationship in the family of God (Galatians 4 & 5).

The Pharisees also judged the disciples by the washing of hands. How about you? Do you or your church have a rule or measuring rod by which you justify one’s piety or Christianity? Do they measure up to your religious standards? Is it how they comb their hair, the way they dress; such as wearing jeans while preaching on a Sunday morning, tattoos on their body, or a man wearing earrings? Is it what they eat or who they dine with? Is it their non-religious interpretation of the Word or their non-religious speech? Is it that they prophesy, heal, or speak in tongues during Sunday Morning service? Here’s one; is it that they are naked hanging on the cross, next to Jesus, publicly confessing their sins and welcomed by Jesus into His kingdom?

It’s not by outward appearance, but by the heart that God judges.

Which ingratiates you to God: wearing a white suit, pure white ankle length dresses, white head covering, and lily-white gloves on a Sunday or a clean heart? Admittedly, I have looked at people and what they do or wear, on a Sunday, which I wouldn’t do or wear, and questioned their thinking but never their relationship with God. How could I? Only God can see their heart.

Hmm. Wonder what God will reward more for; religiously obeying denominational rules on Sunday or faithfully pursuing a relationship with Him daily?

And He said unto them, “The sabbath was made for man, and not man for the sabbath…” Mark 2:27

That’s Today’s Single Focus

DJ Martin (SingleFocus Ministry®)

I love this time of year because it causes all men to take time to reflect on all things we are thankful for. We owe a great deal of gratitude to the Pilgrims and Indians who started the right tradition of gathering together on one accord to give thanks to God. The same things they were grateful for are what we in this country can be thankful for today. It was not easy, but they survived. God brought the rain and increased the fruit of the ground which was often times barren land. Thanks be to God, for now they had food from their garden and meat on their table.

confessbwI am thankful for the farmers all over this land. I am thankful for my Uncle Bud who had a peach orchard and my Aunt Birdie who raised my Mom as if she was her own. I am grateful for my grandpa and grandma who had corn fields and raised chickens on a small farm. I am grateful that God sends the rain in due season. I’m thankful for the fresh smell after the rain and the beauty of the frost on a cold morning.

Because some of their family and friends didn’t make it, the Pilgrims and Indians were grateful to be alive having survived disease, hunger and unpredictable weather. There they were, two ethnic groups on one accord, though they had to endure the hardships that those with wicked intent had brought upon them. For there had been thieves and opportunist there. Yet, God kept them safe and brought them together to show their gratitude to Him.

I’m grateful that I was not home when thieves broke into my house and nothing was taken that could not be replaced. I’m grateful that my brother is alive today having survived retrieving my stolen car which he found parked in front of a crack house. I’m thankful that my sister is alive having survived a shooting episode in our community and the disease of cancer. I am grateful that my brothers survived a fire in our house when they were young.  I am thankful that God healed my mother of cancer and protected my father on the battlefield. I’m truly grateful to God for allowing a crack house in the neighborhood to burn down after I prayed.

I am grateful that God established a nation like this where we can freely worship Him in spirit and in truth. I am grateful that I live in a country where I can pursue life, liberty and happiness. I’m grateful that I can pursue my dreams no matter my status or financial beginnings.

I’m grateful for God consistently providing food on my table when I didn’t have two dimes to my name. I’m thankful that I have a roof over my head and a bed to sleep on, though Christ had “no place to lay His head (Luke 9:58).” I’m grateful for Sears Department Store for giving me a part-time job while I pursued my desired and more permanent vocation. I am grateful for a handsome silver-haired Superintendent of Schools for taking a chance on me, when others had not. I am thankful to God for keeping me through the barrage of bomb threats and clandestine but sometimes overt bigotry. I am grateful for a fourth grade student, named Joe who showed me unconditional love, and for three talented third grade boys who boldly discussed Jesus Christ among themselves. I’m grateful for parents that instilled within us love for others no matter the color of their skin, financial status or position.

God has blessed my going out and my coming in, whether in the country or in the city.  I will praise His name and magnify Him with thanksgiving. I am grateful for family and friends. I praise Him for a pastor that teaches the uncompromising truth, which is Jesus Christ. I thank God for His mercy for I have survived rejection, poverty, car crashes, sickness, three surgeries, and a fall from a ladder.

I am grateful that He loves me enough to correct me and refuses to leave me ignorant without understanding. I’m thankful that He freely gives me wisdom and discernment. I am thankful for open doors He created while I rested in Him. I am grateful for praying parents who taught us to seek His face. I’m grateful that He hears and answers prayers. I am thankful that He forgives my sin and loves and has redeemed me.

I could go on and on, but I won’t this time. I will simply say “I will bless the Lord at all times and daily give Him thanks. I will bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits (PSALM 103:2).

Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise: be thankful unto Him, and bless His name.  Psalm 100:4

That’s Today’s Single Focus

 

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